Codependents and Their Stolen Identity: Why It is So Important for You to Get Free From This Painful Disorder and Live the Life You Deserve
You may not know you are codependent, but you DO know that you are having difficulty in your relationships, especially romantic ones
Codependents have the most beautiful hearts you could ever imagine.
They are kind, loving, and sensitive. All they want to see in life is love.
They are precious.
But before healing, they have no idea how to survive in a harsh environment. When surrounded by selfish people, the unhealed codependent gets lost.
Their natural desire to give, to love, to share is crushed over and over again.
Without knowledge and understanding, their true inner beauty will be stolen by those who suck life from their very being.
This fragile identity that did not get an opportunity to develop and grow in childhood almost disappears if they do not get help.
Without God, this soul has no choice but to morph itself into a figure that is pleasing and desirable to its prey.
However, if the codependent person tries to shine a little from time to time, they could put themselves at risk, for a self-absorbed narcissist could crush their dreams of existing in one blow.
The child learns at an early age to hide their true identity.
Some, by the grace of God, will learn to express themselves in secret. They may find a friend who sees them or they may find a passion to delve into while they wait for the right time to escape.
But sadly, some don’t make it. They may be alive in the physical sense but they have lost their soul.
Fake Love
If this codependent individual finds “love” or what they think is love with a self-absorbed narcissist, any chance of their true beauty shining will be smashed to smithereens.
Any signs of them existing as a unique person will be robbed of them. Instead, they become a slave to their love interest.
Their need to be needed overrides any need to live an authentic life and pursue their own dreams.
The codependent gives up their true identity to belong to another.
This happens because the codependent has a low self worth. They have no confidence or self love. And because of this, they can be used and abused by any liar who manages to deceive them into thinking they are caring people.
This is a disorder and if the codependent does not learn to love themselves their true identity will be lost forever.
Codependency, The Silent Killer: Are You Codependent, or Do You Even Know What That Means?
·November 21, 2023